Dear Child,

Today we saw you for the first time. We saw you at an ultrasound and you were bigger than we expected. The lady said you were 10 weeks along, but we thought it was less.

I felt very emotional when I saw you on the screen. When a life changing event like this happens, your mind plays tricks on you, leading you to be somewhat in denial. However, when proof is there on screen, those tricks no longer work and you realise the reality of it - it is real, and it is actually happening.

We don't know if you're a boy or girl yet, so we haven't given you a name yet, but we do have some names in mind. For now your nickname is Ping Pong, because we saw you on the same day as Hyuna's song Ping Pong was released.

I always thought I would be able to replicate the life my parents gave me, but technology has changed the world so much it would be impossible. Whilst I grew up with antennae tv and landline telephones, you will grow up with YouTube and smart phones. Everything happens so fast now it's hard to keep up.

My goal is for you to become a good person. Someone with integrity, honesty, and virtue. I want you to become a scientist, because I want you to advance humanity and make a real difference in our world. I want you to discover the meaning of life, or find out why the universe exists. I also want you to fall in love with basketball the way I did.

I want you to know your mother, at this early stage, is already going through some tough times having you. She has headaches and feels like throwing up occasionally. Please be good to your mother because pregnancy takes a real toll on her, both physically and mentally.

We were told today that the expected birth date is 7 April 2022. There's a lot to show you in this world, and we can't wait to see you then.

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